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YOU Are the Wand: A Practice in Healing Perfectionism

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Hi, I'm Grace!

the magic is only as

good as the wand.

Raindrops rippling across a dark, glassy water surface with soft light reflecting through — an image of healing perfectionism, of what clears when you stop trying to control the surface.

 

and you are the wand. 

 

the Universe is not North American Santa Claus

going to the mall to buy every wishlist item,

just waiting for you to ask and deserve.

 

the Universe, is a co-creative Reality

acting and responding with your field and the fields 

of everyone else.

 

anything you ask for or want to bring into the world

into your life

into your experience

into your heart

must come through you.

 

you are the conductor, the antenna, the transmitter.

we are the ones. 

 

we can want and long for liberation

for others and the world 

as much as we want.

but if we don’t embody liberation, then there is no way we are bringing that through.

Silhouette of a woman dancing freely under a dusk sky with a crescent moon, arms open — an image of what it feels like to raise your vibrations and let your radiance move through you.

 

you can’t give what you don’t have,

or what you don’t have access to.

 

if you are stuck in shame, blame, anger, overwhelm, or reactivity 

then that is what will come through our field into the world

regardless of the words, intentions, spells, or social media posts to the contrary.

 

you are the wand. 

 

the vibration you are able to hold matters.

it matters a lot.

 

it’s not about what you say

and it’s not even about what you do

it’s about who you are

and the quality of presence that is able to shine through your field.

the more aligned that is, the more the radiance of your true desires and visions will shine forth and be made manifest. 

 

so, yes, heal thyself

Grass standing tall in the sunset, conveying a sense of calm confidence similar to what can be achieved when you raise your vibrations.

so that you can….

not be perfect

but be whole.

 

so that you may bring wholeness

and healing.

 

polish the stone.

purify the wand.

clean the windows.

heal the body.

 

may all beings be free.

You are the wand. Wholeness is what empowers you. 

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“I untangled from a suffering need to earn and prove. I saw how I had been making things so hard for myself.”

Jamie R.