what if we could let it go?
i'm pretty sure 90% of most good advice could be summed up by one or both of these two songs : “Thank U” by Alanis Morisette and “Let It Go” by Disney (??? idk… i've actually never watched the movie).
earlier this week, i was cooking some brussels + potatoes for dinner and my husband played something on the guitar that reminded me of Alanis Morisette. so i jumped up and started playing her Spotify profile through the speaker.
i may or may not have (but definitely did) spent countless hours of my early teens belting out Alanis in the shower. i also may or may not have (but definitely did) enjoy repeating that behavior this week in the car for an insane amount of time with "Thank U" playing on repeat. a deep neurodivergence latch for me is that music (+ sound in general) has its way with me. it's like i don't get to decide when i'm done obsessing over a song or an album. and some of those timelines can last YEARS. i can be super hestitant to listen to new music because inside i'm like — ‘do i have 3 years to get obsessed with only this?’
but back to the kitchen playlist…
as "Thank U" started going through, we kept looking at each other like How 'BOUT that? Alanis KNEW! she knew the Thing(s)! and it made me smile because maybe there was something in baby me — who didn't know she knew — that knew, too and felt the need to sing about it with her.
a few weeks ago, i was working with a client in a movement session and their whole body was just clenched, and it was creating so much unnecessary pressure, effort + pain for them. and the song “Let it Go” just popped into my head and wouldn't go away for weeks (still there).
the beautiful thing about LETTING IT GO — is that we don't always have to know WHY it was there, or why it stuck around so long, or what it means. sometimes we do discover those things, and that's great. but sometimes, obsessing over why just keeps us from doing what we actually need to do which is… LET IT GO. we actually can.
so for this offering, i took the lyrics from these two songs and made them into a lyrical offering below….
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How 'bout me not blaming you for everything
How 'bout how good it feels to finally forgive you
How 'bout grieving it all one at a time
Let it go, let it go
Can't hold it back anymore
Let it go, let it go
Turn away and slam the door
Thank you India
Thank you terror
Thank you disillusionment
Thank you frailty
Thank you consequence
Thank you thank you silence
It's funny how some distance makes everything seem small
And the fears that once controlled me can't get to me at all
How 'bout not equating death with stopping
It's time to see what I can do
To test the limits and break through
No right, no wrong, no rules for me
I'm free
How 'bout no longer being masochistic
How 'bout remembering your divinity
How 'bout unabashedly bawling your eyes out
Let it go, let it go
I am one with the wind and sky
Let it go, let it go
Here I stand and here I stay
Let the storm rage on
The moment I let go of it
was the moment I got more than
I could handle
The moment I jumped off of it
Was the moment I touched down
Let it go, let it go
When I rise like the break of dawn
Let it go, let it go
That perfect girl is gone
Here I stand in the light of day
My power flurries through the air into the ground
Thank you India
Thank you providence
Thank you disillusionment
Thank you nothingness
Thank you clarity
Thank you thank you silence
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may you give thanks. may you let it go.
sing out loud.
amen.
courage,
grace
it is the pillar for having compassion and acceptance of others
and what IS
which unlocks our capacity for things like joy + courage.
so what if we trusted ourselves more?
what if we took the judgement out of it?
what if we learned to be more self-full
to accept that the medicine is you
and opened the heart, your heart, that has the blueprint for your life
your work
and then we got on with this beautiful, terrible thing called Life.
self-acceptance is how we are brave
and, as Glennon Doyle says, The braver I am, the luckier I get.
or in my version : the more i accept myself and relax into who i am, the better my life gets.
may it be so.
courage,
grace
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